Saying I do does not erase the “I did”. Know the practices beliefs and morals of who you are with. If he or she is a cheater before the wedding an “I do” won’t change that. If he or she was abusive Untrustworthy and undedicated then expect those same traits after the wedding. A walk down the aisle and confessing I do does not change either party. Take your time there is never a rush for love. Only God can change a person once the person decides a change is needed from the heart.